
Ringbearers, flower girls, maids of honor, best men, do you need all these people at your wedding and what are their specific roles for a formal occasion? You've heard of 'the wedding party' but, how formal are all the roles and do you need to fill each one? Today, we'll explain the reason for each role so you can make an informed decision about whether you want or need each person in your wedding party. In this article, we're using the most traditional understanding of each role, but you're welcome to mix it up. After all, it's your wedding!
You've heard of 'the wedding party' but, how formal are all the roles and do you need to fill each one? Today, we'll explain the reason for each role so you can make an informed decision about whether you want or need each person in your wedding party.
In this article, we're using the most traditional understanding of each role, but you have every opportunity to mix it up. After all, it's your wedding!

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Personalize your ceremony by asking your close friend or a family member to share a passage from a religious text or meaningful manuscript or perhaps a poem or song lyrics.
For many couples, inviting a close friend to sing, play or perform in any capacity makes their event feel extra special. If you do decide to ask someone significant to take part in your ceremony, make sure to let them know as soon as possible so they have plenty of time to prepare.
Your processional escort will walk grandparents and elder family members down the aisle to their seats.
Ushers are often the first people a wedding guest will see when they reach the ceremony venue. This is often a role for the groomsmen who will direct guests to seats.
You can choose an elder from your community, a notable member of your religious group, a family member or a friend. Our team can put you in touch with a non-denominational officiant or guide you if you would like to invite a significant person in your life to become ordained.

Include your good friends or close family members to light the candles for your unity ceremony.
To help your guests understand what is happening and what to expect, it's common to have an MC at your ceremony. They can announce when the ceremony starts, introduce the wedding party during the processional, hand over to the officiant, and then kick off the reception.
Significant individuals who will sign your marriage documents as an official witness to the legal requirements of your wedding day.